Menswear | February 3, 2021 12:04 pm

9 Pieces of Lingerie for You, A Man, To Wear This Valentine’s Day

Oh, how the tables have turned.

9 Pieces of Lingerie for You, A Man, To Wear This Valentine’s Day

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Valentine’s Day after Valentine’s Day, countless women continue to encase themselves in overly complicated contraptions known as “lingerie,” only for the men they’re doing it for to show up in the same tired boxers that should’ve been retired months ago. Suffice to say, we’re sick of it — “it” being the maximum exertion of effort on our part and the little to none we receive in return.

So this Valentine’s Day we make the simple and not at all unreasonable request that you, yes you, a man, don lingerie of your own. While the market for men’s lingerie might be small, it does exist, and it is populated with some very sexy gems. Before you protest about your precious and fragile masculinity, remember that true masculinity lies in your willingness to unabashedly wear a lace thong and still remain confident in your sense of self. Besides, not only will you look hot, but your resistance to toxic masculinity will make you all the more desirable, because if there’s one thing any good woman loves, it’s deconstructing gender norms.

It’s important to note that this isn’t only about you but your partner, and showing them that you’re appreciative of their continued effort and seek to make the holiday as fulfilling for them as it so often is for you. This doesn’t mean that you have to wear something you truly don’t feel comfortable in, but could be a gesture as small as purchasing a nice pair of silk boxers for the occasion. And if you aren’t afraid to leave a little less to the imagination, maybe consider some sheer pants or a lace bodysuit. More power to you, we say.

Below you’ll find 9 pieces of men’s “lingerie,” ranging from accessible-for-all to real expert-level stuff, all of them sharing the goal of making her Valentine’s Day a little spicier.

Mr. Porter

Tom Ford Velvet-Trimmed Stretch-Silk Satin Boxer Shorts

Give the tighty whities a rest and treat yourself (and her) to this luxurious pair of silk satin boxers by Tom Ford. Finished with velvet trim at the waistband, these are the kind of boxers you reserve for special occasions and thus treat with extreme care. If you’re feeling extra festive this Valentine’s Day, you can opt for a pair in this bubblegum pink hue.

Fluer de Mar

Fleur de Mal Unisex Washable Silk Boxers

Yes, both you and your significant other can wear these boxers — because what’s more romantic than sharing underwear? You might be familiar with Fleur de Mal and their offerings of fancy-schmancy lingerie for women (and maybe you’ve even gifted some to the woman in your life) but now they’re expanding their selection to be more inclusive, beginning with these Unisex Silk Boxers. This particular pair is washable, so you don’t have to worry about being too precious with them.

Maison Close

Maison Close Bande à Part Boxers

Now we’re getting a little more risqué. Inspired by Jean-Luc Godard’s film Bande à Part (or Band of Outsiders), these boxers feature clean graphic lines with a subtle sheerness. If you’re not quite ready to bare it all, these show more skin than you might be accustomed to, while the solid black lines help to provide some coverage. She’ll appreciate the sneak peek you’re allowing her and you can relax knowing you don’t have to go straight into thong territory. It’s all about baby steps, boys.

Savage x Fenty

Savage X Fenty Smoking Jacket

Slip into this satin smoking jacket from Rihanna’s Savage X Fenty line after the fact, or wear it beforehand and drop it to dramatically reveal what lies beneath.


DSquared2 Kick Ass Embellished Lace Trunks

In the event you need a boost of confidence in the bedroom, these DSquared2 trunks have got you covered (figuratively, of course, and only figuratively). Emblazoned in the DSquared2 logo and not much else, these tantalizing tunes are a great way to suggest something along the lines of you’re going to rock her world and finally one-up her vibrator. Here’s hoping.

Neiman Marcus

Versace Greek Key Low-Rise Jockstrap

It’s probably been a minute since you last donned a jockstrap, but fear not, this one from Versace is not of the variety you were required to wear in gym class. Rather, Versace’s version serves no real functional purpose and is instead just a hot undergarment. Your ass will in fact be entirely exposed, but that is what we, the women, want. We know you all are packing cake back there, so don’t be shy — give us the view we deserve.


Amir Slama Sheer Mesh Trousers

It would be a shame to reserve these sheer silk trousers solely for the confines of one’s bedroom, so come summer there’s no reason you couldn’t slip them on over your swim trunks and wear them poolside or while lounging inside on an especially sweltering day. See, they’re really not all that impractical after all, and at 20% off, consider them a steal.


MSemis Mesh Crop Tank Top

You heard it here first: men should be wearing crop tops. We recommend pairing this sporty cropped mesh number with the aforementioned jockstrap for that classic collegiate look.


Menagerie Lace Bodysuit

Menagerie is one of the few lingerie brands that caters specifically to men. You won’t find tacky elephant trunk underwear but, rather, intricate pieces like this full-length lace bodysuit, which does take some time and care to put on but will lend you a much deeper understanding and appreciation for what your S.O. goes through.