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What’s going to make this Valentine’s Day the most memorable one yet (besides getting them something really, really nice, of course)? Some mind-blowing Valentine’s Day sex. How will you accomplish this? Well, that’s your business. Our business is to recommend the best toys and sexual wellness essentials you can gift to your partner (or yourself) that’ll help you achieve sexier sex on V-Day and beyond.
The 30 Best Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
Yes, you just bought her a gift a month ago, and yes, you have to buy her another right now. We got you, though.When it comes to gifting sexual wellness items, it’s crucial to keep a few things in mind. Most importantly, remember that this is a sexy gift for her, not you. When speaking with Natassia Miller, Founder of Wonderlust and Sexologist a few months ago, Miller stressed the importance of keeping your partner’s pleasure in mind.
“Pay attention to what your partner has shared she’s interested in trying or needing. Whether that’s a CBD-infused lube to heighten sensation, a vibrating penis ring that makes penetration more pleasurable for her or a pillow to make certain positions more comfortable. When gifting sexual wellness products, unless it’s something she specifically asked for, it’s always a nice touch to let her know that you wanted to gift her something experiential with her pleasure in mind,” she told InsideHook.
“Don’t gift something that is clearly for your pleasure only, or that has been a source of tension for you two in the past. Save that purchase for another occasion when you discuss and agree that it’s something she wants to try as well.”
So with that invaluable advice in mind, it’s time to shop.
Below, you’ll find stimulating toys and vibrators, orgasm-enhancing oils, bondage accessories and more fun, sensual goodies you and your partner will surely enjoy.
The Rose Lover’s Gift Box
Roses are red, vibrators are good (for everyone) — this gift box has both. Nestled gently between a heart-shaped bouquet of red and white roses. They’re fake, but still, the presentation is sweet and the real star is the internet-famous Rose Vibrator, a highly-rated clitorial suction device that uses air pleasure technology to mimic oral sex.
Fleur du Mal Ravish Me Silk Blindfold
Luxury intimates brand Fleur du Mal also offers a collection of high-end accessories, including this 100% silk blindfold that’s embroidered with a tantalizing command.
Crave Vesper 2 Original Vibrator Necklace
A small but mighty vibration device that doubles as an elegant piece of jewelry. The Vesper 2 is a slim, 24k-carat gold necklace with four vibration patterns and a waterproof design.
Agent Provocateur Alabama Pasties
This feels like something Sabrina Carpenter would sport under one of her iconic one-piece outfits.
Lelo Maze Wide Cuffs
Give the plastic handcuffs a break and swap them (before they break!) for this elevated pair during your next bondage session.
Foria The Passion Play Kit: Sweethearts Edition
Wrapped up neatly in a bow, this travel-friendly special Valentine’s Day kit includes Foria’s best-selling formulas — the Massage Oil and Awaken Arousal Oil — for more pleasurable sex.
We-Vibe Sync 2
Wearable devices are the easiest way for both partners to enjoy the unique sensations of vibration, and the We-Vibe Sync 2 is one of the best couples vibrators on the market. The hands-free, remote-controlled wearable vibrator provides G-spot and clitoral stimulation for her, and external rumblings for you.
Maude Burn No. 3 Massage Candle
This soy candle has notes of eucalyptus and sandalwood — and also doubles as a sensual massage candle.
Zalo Calla Dual-Head Vibrating Wand
Forget flowers! This uniquely designed wand is modeled after a calla lily, features eight vibrations and a flexible tongue. Woowza.
Unbound Sensation Play Pinwheel
An affordable BDSM/impact play/foreplay accessory, Spike is a small, spiky device designed to generate newfound sensations for you and your partner.
Alice Mushrooms Happy Ending
This spice-forward bar from mushroom chocolate brand Alice is the perfect post-Valentine’s Day dinner treat. Warning: She’s spicy!
Bloomi Luxe Arousal Oil
An effective option from Bloomi to increase arousal, this serum features a water-based formula with CBD and botanical aphrodisiacs which makes it compatible with silicone and latex products.
Bouqs x Dame Good Vibes
If you’d like to purchase your Valentine’s Day flowers and vibrators all in one place, The Bouqs Co. is offering a sweet gift set that features a bouquet of their farm-fresh flowers and Dame’s compact vibrator.
Lovehoney Indulge Valentine’s Kit
Everything you need to have an indulgent February 14th is inside Lovehoney’s special edition Valentine’s Kit. Perfect for enjoying sensory play with your partner, this box includes a handful of devices — including the Lovehoney Indulge G-Spot and Clitoral Suction Stimulator worth $80 alone — plus bondage accessories.
Liberator Cello Sex Couch
Go big this Valentine’s Day with a full-blown couch for sex-having. This luxe piece of furniture features a moisture-proof, machine-washable to help keep everything nice and clean.
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