Sex & Dating | November 16, 2021 7:21 am

The 15 Best Sex Gifts for Sexier Holiday Sex

Everything you need to get your ho ho ho-ing on

The 15 Best Sex Gifts for Sexier Holiday Sex
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We know the holidays aren’t exactly sexy, but once you’ve maxed out your credit cards on holiday shopping, spent some time tolerating your least favorite family members and reached listening capacity for “Let It Snow,” you deserve to put up your feet and take a load off (literally).

It’s why we’ve gathered some of the sexiest gifts we believe will make for sexier sex, whether you’re going at it solo or looking to spread the holiday cheer this year. From CBD lubricant and luxury couples vibrators to app-controlled devices and expensive bondage sets, you’ll find everything you need to give the gift of well-deserved, earth-shattering orgasms to a partner or yourself this year.


Foria Intimacy Sex Oil with CBD

This clean-feeling sex oil, wrapped up in a stunning glass dropper bottle, from CBD sexual wellness brand Foria is the best lubricant we’ve tried. Infused with 400mg broad-spectrum CBD, this lube enhances pleasure, and is completely free of added chemicals. 


Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame

Soft and flexible, Pom conforms perfectly to the shape of your hand, as well as whatever body parts you choose to use it on — whether your own or a partner’s. Oh, and it’s entirely waterproof. 


Stim for Him by Cake

Branching out from its line of lubes, Cake has created an arousal gel for your solo endeavors. The gel produces an intense tingling sensation during men’s solo play, switching between a cooling and warming feeling for maximum pleasure. The herbal formula includes natural extracts and ingredients like Kwao Krua Dang, caffeine and niacin for a unique, stimulating sensation that’ll even help your solo sessions last longer.


Cone by Maude

Keeping it minimalist and sleek, Maude’s latest drop is an easy-to-use butt plug. Made of 100% platinum-grade, soft-touch silicone, the discreet Cone is fully waterproof and phthalate- and latex-free.


Promescent Before And After Wipes

We’re big fans of Promescent’s Before and After Wipes. They’re pH balanced, alcohol-free, contain soothing aloe vera, are 100% biodegradable (meaning you can flush them) and are perfect for traveling. Seriously, give your sex towel a break.


Arcwave Ion

The Arcwave Ion is the closest you’ll get to experiencing the female orgasm. It’s the first device to target the Pacinian pleasure receptors in the frenulum (that would be the most sensitive part of your penis, located on the underside of the head) to induce an intense, Galaxy Brain-like orgasm that may take you through time and space. 


ZALO & UPKO Doll Designer Collection Luxurious & Romantic Bondage Play Kit

Probably the most high-end bondage kit currently on the market, all of Zalo’s romantic kinky gear is wrapped up in one opulent collection that stars Italian leather handcuffs, a rose ball gag, a leather whip with a 24-karat gold-plated handle, a striking collar & chain leash plus a luxurious red velvet-lined storage case to keep it all in.


Arouse: Stimulating Serum by Rosebud Woman

A top-rated arousal serum from Rosebud Woman, this stimulating formula is made with plant extracts, aphrodisiacal ingredients and natural stimulants to heighten pleasure and increase moisture, delivering a tingling, orgasmic experience.


Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator

This luxury, wearable egg vibrator from Lovense — the sex toy retailer known for its Bluetooth-controlled, long-distance sex toys — is a fun, high-tech plaything from any distance. You or your partner can control the device via the Lovense app, where you can customize vibration patterns and even sync to music, in-app message and video chat from wherever you are.

Fleur du Mal

Fleur du Mal Gardenia Lace Ruffle Ouvert Panty

A flirty, ruffled panty from luxury lingerie brand Fleur du Mal with a titillating open gusset. Pairs perfectly with Gardenia Lace Overlay Demi Bra.


We-Vibe Verge App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating Cock Ring

The Bond is the first adjustable remote- and app-controlled wearable stimulation ring (think of it as a smartwatch for your penis.) Designed to be worn discreetly, the fully waterproof device delivers intense but impressively quiet vibrations, making it the perfect toy to maximize foreplay and heighten arousal, particularly in public settings. And if secretive sensual play isn’t enough to get you going, the Bond also connects to the free We-Connect app, which allows you or your partner to control the device from anywhere while accessing a broad range of intensity levels and vibration patterns.


Crave Wink+ Personal Massager

The folks at luxury sexual wellness brand Crave are masters at creating sleek, discreet personal massagers that also get the job done. Take the Wink+ — it’s a portable, powerful vibe that has five hours of run time, five speeds, two patterns and would actually look really good displayed on a nightstand.


Bondage Boutique Seduce Me Lover’s Bed Bondage Kit

If you’re looking for a bondage kit on the cheap, this 4-piece under-mattress restraint set includes all the essentials for full-body restraint play for under eighty bucks.


Lelo Tiani 3

For dual pleasure, look no further than the Tiani 3. The luxury couples vibe from Swedish lifestyle brand Lelo is guaranteed to bring you both to new pleasure heights while bringing you even closer together. Designed to be worn during intercourse, the waterproof toy with 8 pleasure settings offers G-spot and clitoral stimulation for her and a few new sensations for you as well.


Champ Ribbed Condoms

Twelve premium latex condoms lubricated with non-sticky, medical-grade silicone and ribbed for an extra dose of pleasure.