20 Best Sex Gifts for Sexier Holiday Sex
Everything you need to get your ho ho ho on
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We know the holidays aren’t exactly sexy, but once you’ve maxed out your credit cards on holiday shopping, spent some time tolerating your least favorite family members and reached listening capacity for “Let It Snow,” you deserve to put up your feet and take a load off (literally).
It’s why we’ve gathered some of these sex gifts that we believe will make for sexier sex, whether you’re going at it solo or looking to spread the holiday cheer this year. From CBD lubricant and luxury vibrators to app-controlled sex machines and fun bondage sets, you’ll find everything you need to give the gift of well-deserved, earth-shattering orgasms to a partner or yourself this year.
Best Sex Gifts
Lovehoney X Womanizer Couple’s Sex Toy Advent Calendar
Perfect for couples looking to enhance pleasure, explore bondage and kick their foreplay up a few notches, this limited edition advent calendar (worth $460) features 24 penis- and vulva-centric toys, including vibrators, BDSM accessories, anal toys and the Womanizer Liberty — a top-rated clitoral suction device worth $100 alone.
If you want our full review of Maude’s first-ever internal vibrator, Spot, you can read all about that here. But TLDR; the new device from the DTC sexual wellness brand is impressively sleek, but even more impressively powerful. With five mighty settings, Spot is a no-frills vibe, one that’s intended for internal stimulation of the g-spot and prostate. It’s available in three pleasing neutrals — grey, green and charcoal — and feels quite luxurious in hand, which is due to Maude’s signature soft platinum-grade silicone that’s impeccably smooth (and non-irritating).
Bloomi Desire Sensual Pleasure Oil
Formulated with a ton of natural ingredients like passionflower and pumpkin seed oil, this pleasure oil is a libido firestarter. (Trust us, we’ve tried it.)
Cosabella Cleopatra Bondage Underwire Bra
This harness underwire bra is designed to accentuate her natural shape, and is a subtle yet seductive addition to her lingerie drawer.
The Aer, from female-founded sexual wellness company Dame, employs pressure wave technology to produce targeted and powerful stimulation. Of the many devices we’ve tried this year, Aer was an unexpected knockout.
Cake So-Low Stroker Kit
A complete pleasure package for anyone with a penis, featuring Cake’s best-selling coconut oil-based lubricant, a stimulating arousal oil, a no-frills stroker and a water-based lube formulated for toys.
Zalo Bess 2 Clitoral Massager
If she enjoys precise, powerful stimulation, this clitoral massager is the one, fellas. Boasting multiple head attachments — including a new anal bead attachment — the Bess 2 uses dynamic vibrations and a slim, pinpoint design to concentrate on her most sensitive erogenous zones (internal and external). Oh, and there’s a brand-new heating function.
Foria Intimacy Breast Oil with Organic Botanicals
This recently launched tincture is formulated with organic botanicals to encourage breast intimacy, alone or with a partner.
Bondage Waist Belt “Mona”
When it comes to BDSM attire, don’t skimp on quality. You can really wow with a luxury, custom-made piece, like this full-grain Italian leather waist belt, handmade in the USA.
Hims OMG Ring Penis Vibrator
The telehealth company offers a hands-free cock ring with a whopping 25 vibration settings. The remote-controlled device heightens sensations for both partners — and looks quite dapper.
Personal Fav Co. Whet Plant-Based Sex Serum
A solid alternative to non-sticky, oil-formulated lubricants, this fully water- and plant-based serum is compatible with toys and safe to use with latex condoms.
Magic Wand Mini Rechargeable Extra Powerful Cordless Vibrator
The mother of all vibrators, Magic Wand, recently released a miniature-sized version of its famed wand massager that’s been a bestseller for over 30 years. Unlike its iconic predecessor, the nine-and-a-half-inch wand is wireless and travel-friendly. However, she’s still sufficiently powerful with three strong vibration settings.
Unbound BDSM Basics
An exploration BDSM set for the bondage-conscious. Unbound makes diving into spicier sex approachable with its best-selling bondage tape that only sticks to itself, and its versatile cuff set that can transform into an over-the-door plaything.
Two soft silicone plus of various sizes (small and large) smartly crafted with grooved horizontal lines that allow lubricant to last longer, for extended use.
Rosebud Refresh Intimate Cleansing Wipes
A post-coital essential, these bamboo cloths gently but effectively, cleanse intimate areas with aloe, purified water and witch hazel.
The Cowgirl Premium Remote and App-Controlled Riding Sex Machine
Maybe you and your partner are too advanced for whips and chains. Fine. Ball out on the iconic Cowgirl sex machine that boasts some crazy specs, including 1200 RPM vibrations and a handcrafted saddle with 360° swivel rotation. The machine also includes two interchangeable silicone riding attachments for dual stimulation and can be controlled via remote or smartphone app.
Crave Duet Classic
Looking for a sexy stocking stuffer? Crave’s discreet dual-motor clitoral vibrator is fantastically travel-friendly. But don’t be fooled by its size, the Duet Classic has a 1.5-hour battery life on one charge, 16 powerful speeds and four modes (plus a “TURBO” mode.)
Fleur du Mal Mens Bouquet Lace Boxer Brief
Put the Calvin Klien boxer briefs away, and sport a much sexier short on date night. A best-seller from Fleur du Mal, the Boueuet Lace Boxer Brief is cut from a soft and stretchy lace for an ultra-sexy, but comfortable undergarment.
Sunday Riley Come Upstairs Massage Candle
A sensual massage candle made from all-natural wax, featuring sweet notes of vanilla and honey that blend into an enticing note of sandalwood.
With a unique pinpoint shape, the all-new clitoral vibrator from the luxury Swedish lifestyle brand moves in an elliptical motion, allowing users to hit any erogenous zone with precise stimulation thanks to its soft and bendable tip.
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