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We know the holidays aren’t exactly sexy, but once you’ve maxed out your credit cards on holiday shopping, spent some time tolerating your least favorite family members and reached listening capacity for “Let It Snow,” you deserve to put up your feet and take a load off.
Literally.
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Wife, mom, daughter, girlfriend…we’ve got you coveredIt’s why we’ve gathered some sex gifts that we believe will make for sexier sex, whether you’re going at it solo or looking to spread the holiday cheer this year.
When gifting sexual wellness products, it’s important to heed a few rules: Pay attention to what your partner has shared they want or are interested in trying, don’t gift something that is clearly for your pleasure only (unless you have discussed it) and when in doubt, gift something extravagant, like an expensive vibrator with all the bells and whistles or a luxurious lubricant.
Now that you’re ready to get gifting, we’ve compiled a list of the best sexual wellness items to stuff someone’s stocking with. From CBD lubricant and modern vibrators to sexy lingerie and luxurious bondage accessories, you’ll find everything you need to give the gift of well-deserved, earth-shattering orgasms to a partner or yourself this year.
Best Sex Gifts
Perfect for couples looking to broaden their romantic connection with bondage, massage and tantalizing sensory play, this 12-piece collection, worth $322, is designed to ignite romance, passion and shared moments.
If you want our full review of Maude’s first-ever internal vibrator, Spot, you can read all about that here. But TLDR: the device is impressively sleek and powerful. With five mighty settings, Spot is a no-frills vibe, one that’s intended for both external and internal stimulation. It’s available in a pleasing neutral grey and feels quite luxurious in hand, thanks to Maude’s signature smooth and non-irritating soft platinum-grade silicone.
Any slinky brasserie, panty or bodysuit from everyone’s favorite French lingerie brand, Etam, is a thoughtfully romantic choice this holiday season, but this lace and satin number, in particular, is saying “unwrap me.”
You’ve heard of face, foot and hand masks, but what about a booty mask? This set of four sheet masks is specifically formulated to plump and rejuvenate the skin on the butt for a firmer, smoother backside.
You might already know our love for Foria and its collection of CBD-infused intimacy products knows no bounds. So once again, we are reminding you that the female-founded brand’s oils that help reduce friction and irritation, while heightening intimacy, during sex make for thoughtful, sexy surprise gifts. This gift-wrapped set features Foria’s best-selling lubricant and arousal oil, along with a relaxing massage oil and two packs of suppositories.
How many people do you know who own a lube warmer? I’m guessing not too many. So, this holiday, why not treat yourself and your partner to this uniquely luxurious gift? This discreet, touchless device warms lube and massage oils to the perfect temperature, kicking your sensual sessions up a notch.
Intended for soft play, these 100% leather cuffs are adorned with sweet bows for a restraint that’s both naughty and nice.
According to reviewers, Unbound’s new travel wand is a 5-star orgasm machine. Despite its cutesy design, Dex has four speeds and four vibration patterns, and it cleverly employs a non-vibrating handle to allow for extended use without numbing the hands. Pair it with the brand’s best-selling stimulating gel for a sexy gift set that packs a punch.
Sex gets messy, so if you need to protect furniture or 800-thread-count sheets, Dame has an easy solution: This soft cotton throw blanket with a 100% waterproof interior that looks good enough to drape over a couch or bedscape when not in use (after you’ve washed it, of course).
Ideal for partners with sensitive skin, this bundle from BIPOC-founded sexual wellness brand Bloomi includes three thoughtful gifts to promote blissful relaxation — a lavender body and massage oil, a best-selling, pH-balanced lubricant and the brand’s all-new warming massager.
Housed in a luxurious, lipstick-like case, Glissant’s water-based lubricant uses hyaluronic acid and aloe vera for an all-natural, pH-balanced formula that hydrates and moisturizes the body for slicker, frictionless sex. Plus, they can stick this discreet bottle in their purse for on-the-go fun.
Not only does Maude make one of our favorite vibrators, but they also make our favorite jar of bath salts. These hand-harvested salt crystals from the Southern Dead Sea nourish and relax the body for a rejuvenating soak pre- or post-coital.
Constructed from memory foam and a custom, washable linen, the Prim elevates the sex pillow to an entirely new level.
Incorporating wearable devices (or any new device, really) into sex for the first time can be daunting for both parties. But the We-Vibe Chorus’s slim and flexible fit adjusts to your body, and doesn’t feel obtrusive during intimate moments. While it’s mainly designed for hands-free clitoral and G-spot stimulation, both partners will enjoy the powerful sensations, bringing you both closer together.
“What the hell is a sex stone?”, you might be wondering. No, it’s not some mystical, Indiana Jones-esque artifact — but it will feel pretty magical. Glide the argan oil-enriched bar across your partner’s body for an intimate, arousing massage.
Share a caramel-filled bonbon or piece of strawberry dark chocolate with your partner, wait 30 minutes and enjoy the effects of these delectable, libido-boosting aphrodisiacs.
A 24K necklace with a sexy surprise: It doubles as a slim, but efficacious, vibrator.
After-sex wipes are a non-negotiable. They make clean up a breeze, and help keep everything nice, fresh and balanced down there, thanks to their pH-balanced formula.
Backdoor play can be daunting for beginners and first-timers, but this beginner plug makes it approachable. Its shape puts a gentle, but still pleasurable, pressure on key spots, and its three speeds and two pulsation modes aid in optional extra-stimulation.
Whether you’re a BDSM pro or a curious beginner, assembling your restraint system shouldn’t feel like you’re building a piece of IKEA furniture. So, to ensure frustration doesn’t kill the mood, it’s wise to pick up some under-mattress restraints. This kit includes those intuitive restraints, along with five additional bondage essentials, like a blindfold, flogger and ball gag.
A serious advancement in AI technology, Lelo’s latest innovation is a male masturbator that utilizes artificial intelligence to upgrade your orgasms. The app-connected stroker uses sonic waves and patented cruise control technology to stimulate the phallus. All you really have to do is sit back and relax.
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