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What’s going to make this Valentine’s Day the most memorable one yet (besides getting them something really, really nice, of course)? Some mind-blowing Valentine’s Day sex. How will you accomplish this? Well, that’s your business. Our business is to recommend the best toys and sexual wellness essentials you can gift to your partner (or yourself) that’ll help you achieve sexier sex on V-Day and beyond.
The 31 Best Valentine’s Day Gifts for Her
Yes, you just bought her a gift a month ago, and yes, you have to buy her another right now. We got you, though.When it comes to gifting sexual wellness items, it’s crucial to keep a few things in mind. Most importantly, remember that this is a sexy gift for her, not you. When speaking with Natassia Miller, Founder of Wonderlust and Sexologist a few months ago, Miller stressed the importance of keeping your partner’s pleasure in mind.
“Pay attention to what your partner has shared she’s interested in trying or needing. Whether that’s a CBD-infused lube to heighten sensation, a vibrating penis ring that makes penetration more pleasurable for her or a pillow to make certain positions more comfortable. When gifting sexual wellness products, unless it’s something she specifically asked for, it’s always a nice touch to let her know that you wanted to gift her something experiential with her pleasure in mind,” she told InsideHook.
“Don’t gift something that is clearly for your pleasure only, or that has been a source of tension for you two in the past. Save that purchase for another occasion when you discuss and agree that it’s something she wants to try as well.”
So with that invaluable advice in mind, it’s time to shop.
Below, you’ll find stimulating toys and vibrators, orgasm-enhancing oils, bondage accessories and more fun, sensual goodies you and your partner will surely enjoy.
Luxury intimates brand Fleur du Mal also offers a collection of high-end accessories, including this 100% silk blindfold.
Wearable devices are the easiest way for both partners to enjoy the unique sensations of vibration, The hands-free, remote-controlled wearable vibrator provides G-spot and clitoral stimulation for her, and external rumblings for you.
Everything you need to have an indulgent Feb. 14 is inside Lovehoney’s special-edition gift set. Perfect for enjoying sensory play with your partner, this box includes a handful of devices — including the Lovehoney Indulge G-Spot and Clitoral Suction Stimulator worth $80 alone — plus bondage accessories.
Spice up your V-Day with this vegan leather bondage set. For just $35, everything you need for titillating restraint play — a mask, whip and wrist cuffs — is in this kit, complete with a handy storage bag.
Want to elevate your solo sessions? Try this no-frills stroker from Butter. The brand, known for its personal massager that targets the perineum and prostate, has recently launched a body-safe silicone stroker with two insertion points and two different internal textures, so you can choose your own adventure.
A lavish, kinky surprise.
Two lightweight, sensual oils housed in travel-friendly bottles. Perfect for whenever and wherever the moment strikes.
An award-winning cock ring, this rumbly device delivers heightened sensations to both partners, vibrating on her clit while increasing blood flow for him. A win-win. It’s also compatible with the Vibes Only app for long-distance or hands-free play.
No quickies this Valentine’s Day. Featuring massage oil, suppositories, sexy dice and my favorite lubricant, this Foria’s Slow Down Bundle encourages you to take your time this holiday with an instructional booklet on how to build anticipation for more sensational intimate moments.
This special edition kit comes just in time for the Valentine’s Day release of Emerald Fennell’s Wuthering Heights, and includes Maude’s slow-burning massage candle and nourishing bath and body oil.
This medium-sized vibrating butt plug features five speeds and five patterns, for hands-free anal stimulation.
This design-forward, powerful wand vibrator will make for the best-looking toy in her sex chest.
This compact massager from BIPOC-founded sexual wellness brand Bloomi uses five speeds and warm heat to deliver increased pleasure.
A comfy, yet firm, wedge designed to keep you or your partner supported in any position. It also seamlessly blends in with the other pillows on your bedspread.
A post-Valentine’s Day dinner treat. Pop one of these best-selling sex chocolates with your partner and get the rest of your night started.
A sophisticated sex set, Tabu’s Golden Hour Kit includes a lightweight, heating massager and a water-based lubricant. It also comes wrapped in a gorgeous gift set for easy, luxurious gifting.
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