relationships

Unfortunately, It Seems the Key to a Better Relationship Is Doing Chores Together

Recent research suggests that couples who share chores, rather than simply dividing them equally, experience more relationship satisfaction

Should Couples Have a Masturbation Policy?

For some couples, masturbation is more or less a secret. Others, however, adopt a much more liberal policy toward self-pleasure.

Does Cheating Count as Non-Monogamy?

As our cultural awareness and understanding of non-monogamy grows, where does cheating fall under that umbrella?

Meet the Men Who Love Being in Female-Led Relationships

They let their female partners control almost every aspect of their lives, and they love it

Why All Monogamy Should Be “Radical”

Essentially, radical monogamy is just monogamy that is actively and consciously chosen, rather than defaulted to. It's also what all monogamy should be.

How to Take Better Photos of Your Girlfriend, According to an Instagram Husband

Advice from an expert on nailing the perfect Insta-worthy shot

Why We’ll Never Get Tired of Jokes About Leonardo DiCaprio’s Age-Gap Relationships

On Sunday night, Oscar's co-host Amy Schumer made a joke that never seems to get old

What Is the “One Penis Policy,” and Why Is it a Problem?

If you're fine with your girlfriend having sex with another woman but balk at the idea of another penis in the mix, it may be time to unlearn some norms

Why You Should Hire a Professional for Your First Threesome as a Couple

Going with a pro sex worker can be a great option for couples — especially ones who are new to threesomes

Women Are Marrying…Themselves?

"Sologamy" is on the rise post-pandemic, and self-wed brides are pulling out all the stops to marry themselves in lavish wedding ceremonies

Why Women Want Nice Guys Now

The pandemic changed what many women want out of relationships. Flakes and bad boys are out, nice guys are in.

Why Men Need to Learn Their Moon Sign Too

Men have a bit of a reputation for being astrology haters, but learning your moon sign can actually help your sex and dating life

“Disposable Dating” Culture Might Actually Be a Good Thing

Less pressure to settle down actually seems... healthy?

Threesome Jealousy Is Real. Here's How to Deal With It.

The internet is full of half-baked guides to navigating jealousy in threesomes. This isn't one of them.

"Love Bombing" and the Internet's Overuse of Psychology Buzzwords

The terms have taken over TikTok, but they're thrown around so liberally they've lost all meaning.

David Foster Defends 34-Year Age Gap With Wife Katharine McPhee

The 72-year-old says an age gap is simply one of many things that might tank a relationship

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Is Your Partner “Soft-Launching” Your Breakup?

This bizarre dating phenomenon is the ultimate head-trip

Men Can Learn a Lot About Dating From the Littlest Birds

Women want a triple threat: someone who can dance, sing and build a house out of twigs and plant sap

Meet Rizz: Your AI Dating Wingman and Response Generator

The keyboard plug-in can theoretically do the talking for you on dating apps

Can Jealousy Be a Good Thing for Relationships?

Decoding the green-eyed monster for healthier relationships

Why Maintenance Sex Belongs in Every Relationship

The positive effects of going after it, even if you don’t feel like it

In Defense of Scheduling Sex

It’s time to rethink how we experience desire, especially in long-term relationships

What It’s Like to Run Swingers Clubs for 25 Years

Nobody knows the business of consensual non-monogamy better than Colette's John Melfi

Is Marriage Actually Good for Your Health?

A new study says maybe so, but we still have thoughts

The Psychology of Cuckolding, an Insult That’s Become a Male Fantasy

"It's like live porn," says one participant, "but with your favorite person as the star"

Where Are the States Where Locals Most Often Marry Locals?

Data on marriage is only part of the full picture

Sophie Lucido Johnson Writes (And Draws) About Parenting (And Polyamory) Better Than Anyone

We caught up with the Chicago author, illustrator and "New Yorker" cartoonist

Could a Long-Distance Relationship Save Your Marriage?

The number of couples "living apart together" continues to grow