relationships

The Habit That All Healthy Couples Have in Common

Relationships that cultivate "secret gardens" go very, very far

Three Simple Rules for Rekindling Romance, Courtesy of Esther Perel

If an expensive Valentine’s date didn’t work, the relationship expert has some ideas that won’t cost you a dime

This Valentine's Day, Give the Gift of Really Fancy Chocolates

For that special someone with an undeniable sweet tooth

Why Women Applaud and Men Mourn the Downfall of High Heels

Are they professional attire? Confidence boosters? Mating tools? Opinions vary, but one thing's certain: high heels are losing ground.

How Men Can Argue Better in Relationships, According to Esther Perel

Do you have the same fight with your partner over and over? The renowned psychotherapist can help — she's seen it all before.

A Field Guide to the Many Forms of Ethical Non-Monogamy

We break down the types and different terms to know

The 15 Hottest Sex Products for a Very Hot Summer

Featuring items from Dame, Maude and all of our other favorite sexual wellness brands

Feeling Horny After a Tough Breakup Is Totally Normal

Heartbreak is no match for your raging hormones

It’s Okay to Break Up if Your Kinks Aren’t Compatible

You’re allowed to prioritize your sexuality as much as any other part of yourself

It’s Okay to Watch Porn With Your Partner if You Both Agree to It

The initial conversation might feel awkward, but consent is vital when bringing porn into the bedroom

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It’s Okay to Break Up if Your Kinks Aren’t Compatible

You’re allowed to prioritize your sexuality as much as any other part of yourself

It’s Okay to Watch Porn With Your Partner if You Both Agree to It

The initial conversation might feel awkward, but consent is vital when bringing porn into the bedroom

Relationship Age Gaps Are Still So Unequal for Men and Women

Plus, science says they might end in divorce, anyway

Is Your Partner “Soft-Launching” Your Breakup?

This bizarre dating phenomenon is the ultimate head-trip

Men Can Learn a Lot About Dating From the Littlest Birds

Women want a triple threat: someone who can dance, sing and build a house out of twigs and plant sap

Meet Rizz: Your AI Dating Wingman and Response Generator

The keyboard plug-in can theoretically do the talking for you on dating apps

Can Jealousy Be a Good Thing for Relationships?

Decoding the green-eyed monster for healthier relationships

Why Maintenance Sex Belongs in Every Relationship

The positive effects of going after it, even if you don’t feel like it

In Defense of Scheduling Sex

It’s time to rethink how we experience desire, especially in long-term relationships

What It’s Like to Run Swingers Clubs for 25 Years

Nobody knows the business of consensual non-monogamy better than Colette's John Melfi

Is Marriage Actually Good for Your Health?

A new study says maybe so, but we still have thoughts