A Few Words on Throwing a Holiday Party They'll Never Forget

A Few Words on Throwing a Holiday Party They'll Never Forget

To mistletoe, or not to mistletoe?

Yesterday, we went over the rules of navigating your company holiday party with grace, good humor and aplomb.

Today, we turn the tables: How does a man host a holiday party that his closest consorts will never forget?

Some of the roles and rules remain the same: Dress smart but not flashy. Never take the last hors d’oeuvre. Don’t end up under the table — or a coworker.

But others take a little know-how.

So we’re breaking you off with a proverbial host of holiday hosting tips, from the city’s most slept-on private event spaces, to the best restaurants in town that cater, to 10 jokes that are relatively tame but still thoroughly funny.

And don’t forget the mistletoe.



OK, so you’re throwing a holiday party.

Now you actually have to plan said party.

Which can be a drag. Especially when it’s Q4, the in-laws are in town and you’ve got more irons in the fire than one man can handle.

Solution: outsource. Below, you’ll find five nationwide services that take care of all the pesky parts of planning a proper holiday bash — and all with a few swipes and clicks on the ol’ smartphone.

Thumbtack: Your all-in-one app for party prep. From here, you can hire private chefs, caterers, DJs, bands, bartenders, decorators, valets...and even book entertainment like Santas. Or contortionists. Or Santa contortionists.

Handy: For cleaning before and after....leave it to the pros.

Pepperplate: A kitchen helper app that, among other things, scales recipes for parties and helps you with your pre-party shopping list.

Minibar: Or whatever “delivers booze in 30 minutes to your door” app of your choice.

Playlist Potluck: Instead of bringing a dish, each invited guest through Sonos’s new service brings a song — basically, you’re sending out invites and collaboratively building the night’s soundtrack at the same time. Also, users of the service have a chance to win some free Sonos products and a celeb chef-led dinner party.



“Make me a drink!” they say.

And when they do, you better have something superior to a whiskey ginger up your sleeve.

Enter the InsideHook Cocktail Quarterly, Vol. XIV, flush with seven holiday tipples every host, guest and jolly uncle needs this season.

For your devices as host — and a busy one, who is probably making too many introductions to be mixing cosmos at breakneck — we recommend something large format, like the Pilgrim’s Punch.


Recipe:

10 oz. Belvedere RED
14 oz cloudy apple cider
3 oz allspice syrup
4 oz. lemon juice
4 lemon wheels
4 orange wheels
5 cinnamon sticks

Combine all ingredients in a large punch bowl and stir. Serves 6-8.

Nota bene: For every specially designed Belvedere purchased, 50% of the proceeds go towards the fight against AIDS via the (RED) organization. You can purchase a bottle here.

 




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“Leave politics and religion out of it.”

Every man has at some point been told these words by his partner — or his parents, or his children — immediately before entering someone’s holiday party.

But right now, things are different. Because right now, there are two Americas, they don't play nice with each other, and they're making very little effort to listen to what the other side has to say.

So this year, we challenge you to ignore the rules of polite dinner conversation: G’head. Talk politics. But before you go in guns blazing, exercise a few simple rules of conduct to make sure things don’t end in donnybrooks.

Challenge beliefs, not the people who hold them. Just because someone voted for Trump doesn’t make them a racist.

Listen. What’s the feeling behind someone’s stance? Are they an environmentalist because they connect to the earth the same way you connect to religion? If so, then you understand why they have that belief. Boom, common ground.

Ask questions. How did they arrive at their conclusions?

Be self-deprecating. Even if the other person is incapable of doing it. It's charming, and can lighten the mood when things get tense.

Breathe and mind your body language. Don’t cross your arms. Don't roll your eyes. Be open with your posture as well as your mind. You're having a conversation, and you should feel lucky to have the freedom to take part in one.

Know your positions. Don't go into your conversations half-cocked. Read up. Cite credible sources. The Economist and The Atlantic do a thorough job that doesn't skew as one-sided as, say, The New Yorker.



Curb Your Enthusiasm star Jeff Garlin once told Esquire, “There's only one true superpower amongst human beings, and that is being funny.”

And while it’s true that humor is a gift you either have or you don’t, there is a way to appear funnier than you actually are — if only for the space of a night. It’s called knowing a good joke, and it requires naught but a sharp memory and some semblance of comedic timing to execute.

Below, 10 that check all the boxes for the perfect office party joke: A) they are short — and thus easy to memorize; B) they are all-ages-appropriate (relatively); and C) they are funny. Actually funny.

How do you tell if someone’s a vegan? Don’t worry, they’ll tell you.

A Buddhist walks up to a hot dog stand and says, “Make me one with everything.”

Say what you want about deaf people …

A nurse finds a rectal thermometer in her pocket and thinks to herself, “Hey — some asshole has my pen.”

I asked my North Korean friend how it was over there. He said he can’t complain.

A Roman guy walks up to a bar, holds up two fingers and says to the bartender, “Five beers, please.”

I have an inferiority complex. But it’s not a very good one.

You can never lose a homing pigeon. If your homing pigeon never comes back, what you had was a pigeon.

My ex-wife still misses me — but her aim’s getting better.

A woman asks a bartender for a double entendre, so he gives it to her.



Giving a toast is to the drinking man what saying grace is to the God-fearing one:

It honors. It thanks. It makes us laugh.

And it acknowledges the importance of the moment and all those present, which is why we drink in the first place.

To give a good toast requires tact, perspective and a few good words. So we reached out to some of our favorite bartenders, CEOs and one of TV’s funniest writers for some advice on how they’ll be toasting their nearest and dearest over the holidays.


FOR YOUR FAMILY

John Harris
Bar Manager, Virgin Hotel Chicago

"A toast to the old, to those who made it through and those who did not. May you reflect well on the good times and learn from the hard ones. A toast to the new, to those who will make it through and those who will not. May we revel greatly in the good times and learn from the hard ones.”

John Harris oversees bar program in all four bar and restaurant concepts at the ultra sexy, one-year-old Virgin Hotel Chicago.


FOR YOUR FRIENDS, SINCERE VERSION

Stephane Bombet
Owner, Bombet Hospitality

“Some days are difficult to go through. Then there are moments like tonight, amongst friends, and I’m filled with joy and happiness deep in my heart. Lets remember this moment and enjoy every minute of it. Because that's what life is all about. Carpe Diem!”

Stephane Bombet is the Los Angeles restaurateur behind Bombet Hospitality, which recently opened two new spots in one month: Viviane and Hanjip. He also owns Terrine and Picca, with more to come in 2016.


FOR YOUR FRIENDS, LATE-NIGHT VERION(S) 

Mehar Sethi
Writer and Producer, BoJack Horseman

"To alcohol and thumbs, the only two things that separate man from beast."

"A toast to that family member who cracks a bottle of wine at 2 PM on Christmas. We were all thinking it."

"To Australians, for making all of America's drinking problems seem a little less severe."

“To my Tinder Family: because every Tinder sister is special in her own anonymous way that is fun once and rarely again.”

Mehar Sethi is a television writer and producer who has written for BoJack Horseman, The Cleveland Show and Robot Chicken. He paid a marketing team six-thousand dollars to write this bio.


FOR YOUR COLLEAGUES

Michael P. Davidson
CEO, GenNext

“I hear it’s 'that time of year.’ Anyone here have any idea what that means? Angry shoppers, nosy relatives, hectic schedules. All small things.

'That time of year' should mean reflection, gratitude and a wink to the year ahead. All big things. Big things that are only words without each of you here tonight.

So here’s to the big things, and to experiencing them together all year round. Cheers!”

Michael Davidson is the CEO of GenNext, an organization of leaders who seek and inspire pragmatic and creative solutions to issues surrounding education, economic development, and global security.


FOR YOUR CUSTOMERS

Brett David
Creative Director, The Line Group

"May your intentions be better, but decisions be worse, and give a bit more of that change from your purse."

As Creative Director at The Line Group, Brett David oversees the cocktail list and ambience at four of NYC's hippest bars and nightclubs.


FOR YOUR EMPLOYEES

Quy “Q” Nguyen
CEO, Allyance Communications

"I'm so glad my other good friends were busy tonight, so I get to spend it with you guys. In all seriousness, I'm truly blessed and fortunate to be surrounded by some of the most amazing, talented and kind-hearted people I could ever ask for. I love when we kick ass and make magic happen for our customers like we did this year. But what I love more is we're able to share this awesome journey together. Raise your glass ... Here's to continued success with the people you love."

Quy Nguyen is the CEO of Allyance Communications, which handles the cloud computing and voice and data needs of massive companies like Warner Brothers and Zappos.


And a few old standbys from the InsideHook editorial team:

“To our sons: may they have rich fathers and beautiful mothers.”

“May we get what we want, may we get what we need, but may we never get what we deserve.”

“To our wives and girlfriends — may they never meet.”

“Here’s to staying positive and testing negative.”

“I drank to your health in company. I drank to your health alone. I drank to your health so many times, I've nearly ruined my own.”

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